How about, “You’re such a wonderful mother. You’re so patient.” That’s one I don’t Like. I do think I’m a pretty good mom just like so many I know. But when people say this to me it feels like pity. No one appreciates pity.

I wrote I lot about my son Diego with special needs should you care to check it out (Yes, shameless self promotion but he’s a real character!)

Ponderer, parent, runner, teacher, immigrant. I want to help you “Know thyself”. Check out The Honest Ponderer: https://mailchi.mp/eea027e7565f/medium-subs

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