My experience was so similar to yours it’s creepy! Got pregnant the only time we didn’t use birth control. I was 24. Had married at 22. Now I’m 51 and the boys are 25 and 27. My oldest is developmentally disabled so needs us a lot. They’re both amazing sons though and, thankfully, my marriage is one of the magical aspects of my life. Anyhow, I felt like I was reading about me and really enjoyed it.